"Everybody makes their own choices. When we got the news that the cancer had metastasized, Jai and I cried and held each other. Then we made a pact: We’re going to laugh. And we do laugh. A lot. We joke about the cancer. And everything else… When I went scuba diving with old friends, one of them said, ‘Don’t bother putting sunscreen on Randy.’ Humor is one of the greatest gifts our species has been given. To lose it would be terrible."